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Archives - August, 2006

Forgetting Labels – August 30, 2006
I’ve been renovating the Natural Life magazine website. And I came across my editorial from January of 1999. Looks like I’ve been going on about “ists and isms” (see August 14 posting below) for awhile now. Here’s part of what I wrote then:

“As the new year turns, I’m on a mission. My mission is to remove the “ist” words...words like “activist”, “environmentalist”, “feminist”, “conservationist”... from this publication. It won’t be easy, because those words provide writers like me with an easy way of referring to a group of people with a shared set of values. But I am trying to purge them from my vocabulary because their use divides people into categories – the “ists” and everybody else (ie. the mainstream). I recently read an article that referred to, ‘...students, the general public, public officials, business and labor leaders, activists and environmentalists.’ I felt like crying, ‘Activists are people too!’.”

Moreover, I wrote, using these words perpetuates stereotypes and breeds inaction because it allows everybody who doesn’t identify as an “ist” to escape their responsibility to make changes. 

So as American public broadcaster, college instructor, environmentalist Nancy Pearlman recently wrote, “Let’s forget labels and just get down to the business of making this planet a healthier and safer place for all life.”
Posted: 2006/08/30 7:08 PM

Let Me Know When They Get the Facts Right – August 25, 2006
So the experts at the International Astronomical Union meeting in Prague have, after much heated debate, finally agreed upon the definition of a planet. And, contrary to the press release they issued a week or so ago, they’ve also decided that we have eight planets rather than 12…or the nine that we used to have. (See my August 17th posting below.) Interesting to know that the decisions were made by a small minority of scientists present at the meeting – only approximately 300 of the estimated 2,500 astronomers present actually voted.

Poor old Pluto. Does that change things for astrologers as well as school teachers and students? Pluto has been relegated to a new category of “dwarf planets” and could, according to scientists, be joined by many others over the next few years. Now there’s a challenge for those who believe that education is the accumulation of facts!
Posted: 2006/08/25 12:05 PM

What’s the Rush? – August 21, 2006
These days, avoiding the adult-looking face of six-year-old murder victim JonBenet Ramsey in the media is difficult…and I imagine we’ll be seeing that disturbing photo for many more months now that the ten-year-old case has a new suspect. I, like many others, have begun wondering all over again why parents would plaster their young daughters’ innocent faces with make-up, and coif and dress them in a manner suited to a much older person.

This sort of adult intervention is common, if not as extreme as in the case of child beauty queens. It’s what makes parents push their young children into playing team sports at an ever-increasingly early age. It’s what leads them to program their children’s summers with school work or “enrichment” activities, and to justify enrolling their three-year-olds in preschool. It’s what robs children of the learning that takes place when they arrange their own games and choose their own activities on their own timetables. In short, when they are respected enough to be allowed to behave like the boisterous, curious children they are. There are a number of possible psychological reasons for parents at the extreme end of this syndrome, but at the bare minimum they are motivated by an urgency to give their kids a leg-up, a running start at achieving success. Author David Elkind notes that these “hurried children” often suffer illness, confusion, pain and stress as a result of being pushed, and that they represent a good chunk of the suicide statistics.

Although Elkind coined the term and sounded the alarm in 1981 in his book The Hurried Child (Addison-Wesley), we’re hurrying children even faster these days. I find that ironic, given the fact that life expectancies are increasing in the western world. This desperate rush to front-end load our children’s lives makes little sense when they can reasonably expect to survive for another 70 or 80 years. In most people’s lives, there is plenty of time to allow life to unfold at its own pace, without this desperate need to get ahead. The cosmetic and education industries would make less money, but I think we’d all be better off.
Posted: 2006/08/21 10:50 AM

Are “Facts” Worth Memorizing? – August 17, 2006
The “experts” have decided to agree on the definition of a planet. Who would have thought there wasn’t one? When I was a kid in school, 45 or so years ago, I assumed those guys already had decided. I was, after all, taught as fact that earth was one of nine planets in our solar system. In fact, I was tested on that bit of “knowledge” and chastised if my memory failed and I said that there were eight or, say, 12.

But now, the International Astronomical Union (IAU) is holding a meeting at which the issue will be debated. A proposal is being presented that will define the term and set the current number of known planets at 12. The scientists say that their “refinement of the body of knowledge” is as a result of the advent of powerful new telescopes on the ground and in space, which have caused planetary astronomy to evolve over the past decade. The chair of the IAU’s Planet Definition Committee admits that the discussion of both the scientific and the cultural/historical issues surrounding this issue had its members losing sleep last month. But they have ended up in agreement and, with all probability, there will soon be Mercury, Venus, Earth, Mars, Ceres, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, Charon and 2003 UB313. I wonder how long the old text books will hang around in classrooms.

If nothing else, this is an affirmation of John Holt’s statement that: “Since we can’t know what knowledge will be most needed in the future, it is senseless to try to teach it in advance. Instead, we should try to turn out people who love learning so much and learn so well that they will be able to learn whatever needs to be learned.” Or to know how to research current facts when they need them, rather than memorizing information when they’re young that will turn out to be wrong later in life!
Posted: 2006/08/17 11:20 AM

Not Minding Our Own Business – August 16, 2006
I’ve been re-reading John Ralston Saul’s The Unconscious Civilization (1995, Anansi Press). And I came across the following quote: “Real individualism …is the obligation to act as a citizen. This has nothing to do with conformism or obedience to ideas outside of the public good ... The very essence of individualism is the refusal to mind your own business.”

Saul’s endorsement of individualism is not libertarian in nature, but rather the opposite. He writes that our society is increasingly passive, conformist and corporatist, and argues in favor of thinking for one’s self, of identifying ideologies in order to control them and eschewing narrow self-interest. A successful society, he believes, is based on action by disinterested individuals, which he says is the real meaning of “individualism.”

That sort of action by citizens is contrary to how the self-created elites who think they know what is good for us want us to behave, according to Saul. They want us to mind our own business, “to not act as disinterested participants in the give and take of debate that occurs in a civilization.” By encouraging us to mind our own business, corporations and interest groups alike can dominate the decision making process, enact legislation, set standards and define policy in ways that serve them best. But that’s not democracy, in spite of some western governments forcing something by that name on other countries.

I think his argument holds true for any institution, including schooling. When we refuse to mind our own business, when we don’t conform, when we think for ourselves – and therefore reject schooling as the means to an education – we are a threat to the corporatists and interest groups that thrive on the schooling industry…and we create a whole other generation that thinks for itself! That gives me great hope for the future of real democracy.
Posted: 2006/08/16 4:11 PM

RSS Feed – August 16. 2006
In response to numerous requests from readers, we have created an RSS feed for this blog so that you can find out when I’ve added a new entry without visiting the site. See details in the sidebar to the left. Thanks for reading! Over the next few days, we’ll be adding a RSS feed to the Natural Life magazine site, which is updated with new articles on a regular basis.
Posted: 2006/08/16 10:06 AM

A Pox on Ists and Isms – August 14, 2006
An article in the August-October issue of Otherways, the magazine of the Australian Home Education Network caught my eye. Entitled “Homeschooling – A Feminist Challenge,” it was written by Wendy McElroy, a self-described “Individualist Anarchist” and “Individualist Feminist” who is also a columnist for FoxNews.com. Anyway, in the article she describes “a peaceful revolution…of [educated] women choosing to stay at home to teach their children.” Yet, she notes, “the major voices within feminism are either silent or ambivalent about homeschooling.” She goes on to provide her explanation for that, which involves homeschooling parents wanting to avoid the politically correct values championed by both mainstream feminists and public schools, values which she says include the diminishment of boys. She characterizes homeschooling moms as being “a backlash against [feminist] PC policies.” She also points to the fact that homeschooling mothers stay at home in “much the same family situation that Betty Friedan described as ‘a concentration camp.’” And then she asks the odd question: “What if homeschooling is a choice of which self-respecting women should be proud?” Is this a problem I hadn’t heard of? Are there legions of ashamed homeschooling women out there to whom McElroy could introduce me???

This article has been bothering me since I read it earlier this week, and not just because of its overstatement. I really have trouble with exercises in sorting and dividing, such as this one. Who says I can’t be a feminist and reject the idea of school? Who says families can’t be as – if not more – democratic as schools? Who says all homeschooling families involve mom teaching? Who says homeschooling is isolationist and regressive...or, for that matter, politically incorrect?

For me, feminism is about choice, and that includes being able to choose whatever sort of lifestyle and source of income I want…and perhaps many different ones over the course of a lifetime, unrestricted by other people’s notions of gender, politics or anything else. Besides, for my family, homeschooling in the 70s and 80s (which, as I’ve written here before, looked like “unschooling” does today) was a family pursuit, with both parents working from home as the children learned (well, as we all learned!). That is, home wasn’t a “concentration camp” for anyone – neither adults nor, perhaps more importantly, children. And yes, I had/have a career. And no, we were/are not alone!

Perhaps what’s wrong here is the attempt to generalize. Homeschoolers have many different motivations, philosophies and lifestyles; feminism takes many forms and includes a wide variety of opinions on many topics.

Or maybe the problem lies in the examining, sorting and naming of theories, principles and philosophies. Those intellectual activities can be interesting for some people. And they can create important organizing tools necessary for those advocating for change. But for most of us, it’s enough to have the confidence in our own beliefs and to let them guide how we live our lives, not worrying about the “correctness” of our attitudes or what “ist” or “ism” we’re fitting into…whether we’re feminists or not, unschoolers or homeschoolers, or some hyphenated version. Clearly, we need not only some new vocabulary, but a lot more publicity about how women, men, children and families are living and learning in non-coercive, progressive, non-institutionalized ways.
Posted: 2006/08/14 2:49 PM

The End of Free-Range Play? – August 12, 2006
Both Natural Life and Life Learning have excerpted Richard Louv’s important book Last Child in the Woods
(2005, Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill). In the Natural Life excerpt, we included the following quote, which describes Louv’s thesis: “The cumulative impact of over development, multiplying park rules, well-meaning (and usually necessary) environmental regulations, building regulations, community covenants, and fear of litigation sends a chilling message to our children that their free-range play is unwelcome, that organized sports on manicured playing fields is the only officially sanctioned form of outdoor recreation.”

At least one reader felt the case to be over-stated and paranoid. However, a recent incident in England has underscored the problem. As reported in the Daily Mail newspaper, three 12-year-olds were arrested for climbing and playing in a tree! They were locked in a cell for two hours and made to give DNA samples…all because they wanted to build a tree house.
Posted: 2006/08/12 4:24 PM

Children Can't Wait – August 11, 2006
“Many things can wait. The child cannot. Now is the time. His blood is being formed, his bones are being made, his mind is being developed. To him, we cannot say tomorrow. His name is today.” ~  Chilean poet Gabriela Mistral
Posted: 2006/08/11 11:04 PM

Being Playful – August 3, 2006
There was an article in Newsday a few weeks ago entitled Racing to Play. It’s about the kinds of games seniors apparently play. The list includes Bridge, Cribbage, Mah Jong, Dominoes, Chess, Scrabble and other pursuits like video games (gasp.). Mental stimulation, socialization and the healthy effects of laughter were some of the benefits cited.

I had just read the article when I received an email from one of the “experts” quoted in the article - game-maker and guru Bernie DeKoven, age 64. Bernie knows a thing or two about play, having been a co-director of the New Games Foundation (created about three decades ago by Stewart Brand of Whole Earth Catalog fame). He has some great games and links on his website and his blog (at the same location) is great reading. And we published an article about his “junkyard sports” in Natural Life’s May/June 2005 issue. He told the Newsday reporter, “I think a lot of older people are reclaiming their need to play, and they’re looking for opportunity and finding places that foster a certain amount of playfulness.”  He said he could almost hear the horror in the reporter’s voice at the idea of playful seniors!

But here’s something interesting: apparently Scrabble is one of the most popular classic games, but 55 percent of the National Scrabble Association’s members are at least 50. So they’re trying to get younger people interested in the game. Most life learning families probably have discovered its many delights and advantages, but I wonder how many other families spend that sort of quality time together.

Meanwhile, many of the “seniors” I know play things like volleyball, cycling, tennis, Frisbee, Tai Chi. I think that’s the type of fun I’ll concentrate on having when I grow up. Now, I have to figure out if my 30-something daughter was humoring me or herself when she suggested playing Scrabble on my recent visit!
Posted: 2006/08/03 5:37 PM