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Archives - April, 2006

Turn Off the TV – April 26, 2006
In terms of hours spent, watching TV is North America’s favorite pastime. But as an abundance of evidence makes clear, our television habit has serious negative consequences. Research shows that excessive TV-watching cuts into family time, harms our kids’ ability to read and learn, encourages violence, and promotes sedentary lifestyles and obesity. In order to promote decreased use of television, a non-profit organization named TV-Turnoff Network was founded in 1994. Annually, they sponsor TV-Turnoff Week, which happens to be this week. In addition to lots of facts and useful information on their website, here are some TV-Turnoff Tips for families to consider: Move your television to a less prominent location; keep the TV off during meals; designate certain days of the week as TV-free days; do not use television as a reward; listen to music or the radio for background noise; cancel your cable subscription and use the money for books; don’t worry if children claim to be bored because boredom passes and often leads to creativity.
Posted: 2006/04/26 3:31 PM

A Life That Mattered – April 25, 2006
Author, activist (although she preferred to call herself a citizen who occasionally had to protest stupidity), critic of authority, self-made economist, intellectual with little formal schooling, Jane Jacobs was all of those and more. She died this morning in Toronto at age 89. The world – or at least this part of it – is better for her life and poorer for her death.

Born in Pennsylvania and later a resident of New York City, Jacobs moved to Toronto in the late 60s with her family in order to avoid her sons being drafted into the Viet Nam war. She said later that she’d fallen out of love with her country. However, while living in New York, she successfully stopped the construction of a neighborhood-damaging expressway, and she repeated that activism in Toronto as one of the leaders of the movement to stop the construction of the Spadina Expressway, which would have destroyed wide swaths of old neighborhoods in the downtown part of the city, where she lived until she died. Her first book, The Death and Life of Great American Cities, published in 1961, was a bible for urban organizers, favoring the small scale of low-rise local neighborhoods, which include both commercial and residential activity. Neither right wing nor left wing in her “small-p” politics, she favored grassroots action over big government.

She also, like me, scorned many “isms” and was, I think, anti-expert, saying more than once that ideologies are blinders. She was a magnificently successful example of passion and intellectual curiosity being the road to self-education. Beyond a few courses at Columbia University, she was self-taught and reportedly turned down many of the honorary degrees that were offered to her late in life. David Crombie, a former may or of Toronto and a long-time friend and admirer, has described her as a “Harvard refusenik.”

A friend of unschooling proponent John Holt, Jane attended and spoke at a memorial service that some of us organized for him in Toronto in 1985. Like Holt, she was an authentic thinker who avoided jargon and questioned received ideas that were presented as fact. She had a great and creative life, one that mattered in very many ways. And besides her books and the non-existent freeways, she has left a huge legacy of ideas. In 1997, the City of Toronto sponsored a conference entitled “Jane Jacobs: Ideas That Matter.”. One of the results of the conference was The Jane Jacobs Prize. It includes an annual stipend of $5,000 for three years to be given to “celebrate Toronto’s original, unsung heroes – by seeking out citizens who are engaged in activities that contribute to the city’s vitality.” Upon announcing her death today, her family issued a statement that read in part: “What’s important is not that she died but that she lived, and that her life’s work has greatly influenced the way we think. Please remember her by reading her books and implementing her ideas.” And, I would add, by replicating her ever-questioning, independent way of thinking about the world.
Posted: 2006/04/25 8:08 PM

Expert Power – April 24, 2006
I just got off the phone after listening to an obnoxious person detail for me his academic and training credentials, all of which, he assured me, make him an expert in his field. And that, he said, is why I need to publish the article he was trying to pitch. When he finally paused to take a breath, I asked about the practical experience he had in the field he wanted to write about. None, he said indignantly, but that is irrelevant because he is an expert. I told him that we prefer our writers to have gained their expertise by living whatever they’re writing about and ended the phone call as quickly as I politely could.

I had to chuckle because the poor guy had no way of knowing how many of my buttons he was pushing during that brief phone conversation. And the main one was the “expert” button. I admire those who have studied something in depth, and those who have a passion about something. But I get easily irritated when people claim to be experts, to have all the answers. Inevitably, they are trying to sell something. I know that because I’ve marketed myself as an expert – used the media’s description of me as an “award-winning journalist”, or a “homeschooling guru” in order to sell books or get speaking gigs.

Being an expert gives you power. But it’s usually the “power over others” type, rather than what the writer and activist Starhawk calls “power-with-others” to accomplish good things or to effect change through working together. The expert mentality also personal power, that ability to be self-reliant, to believe in our ability to take on new challenges, to learn new things.
Posted: 2006/04/24 5:08 PM

Success by Six – April 23, 2006
Public school boards and teachers’ unions are uniting against the new Conservative Canadian government’s plan to put child care dollars directly into parents’ pockets rather than into a public daycare system that was planned by the former Liberal government. I can easily see why they feel that way: Research shows that children are better prepared for school when they’ve attended daycare that looks like school. And kids who are have been molded in a way that they easily find their places on the school assembly line are much easier for teachers and other school staff to manage. But please don’t tell me we are talking about children’s best interests here.

A recent newspaper article quoted Peel District School Board Education Director Jim Grieve as saying that up to 30 percent of children in his area aren’t ready to learn to read when they get to grade one. So he has helped spearhead a community initiative called “Success by 6”, which seeks to solve that problem. I guess allowing all those kids to learn to read at their own speed isn’t an option in Mr. Grieve’s world.

The daycare funding policy reversal is expected to cost tens of thousands of promised daycare spaces. And that’s too bad for those families who want or need to have someone else look after their kids in a regulated facility. And the $1200 a year the government is planning to give families is a joke – too little to allow anyone a real choice about childcare (especially when the spaces aren’t available). But this over-heated rhetoric about the lack of daycare damaging kids because without it they won’t be prepared for school is misguided. It’s also contrary to the fact that many Canadians would, if it was economically feasible, prefer to have one parent stay home with small children. In fact, a recent Ipsos Reid study called “The Pulse of Canada” found that about half of us feel that way. And, at the same time, only 40 percent believe that the public school system provides a good education. Hmmm. For a refreshingly non-partisan take on this subject, visit the Kids First Parents Association of Canada website.
Posted: 2006/04/23 1:35 PM

Reconnecting With What’s Important – April 9, 2006
For the past few days, I’ve been thinking about busyness and how it’s been a source of anxiety for me recently. Part of the reason I’ve been stressed is that I’ve forgotten about the Zen approach called “simultaneous inclusion”. I have been thinking in terms of “busy” or “not busy” and waiting until I’m not busy in order to rest. But “not busy” seems illusive these days. Simultaneous inclusion, on the other hand, would keep me focused on the task at hand with my whole heart and mind, allowing me to remain calm while in the midst of a chaotic time...and to enjoy the productive and rewarding life I’ve created.

This categorizing of work and non-work is the bane of our society. We work all day until we can go home at five o’clock (or later, depending on the demands of our jobs) to move into family mode; we work all week in order to play on the weekend; we work until we’re 65 in order to enjoy retirement. We divide our time into various parts, based on the activity that’s undertaken during that time period. And we learned to divide our time in that manner very early – when we were in school, studying first one subject for an hour, then moving on to another, apparently disconnected, subject. So there is no surprise that, as adults, we find it difficult to integrate all the parts of our lives and to enjoy them simultaneously while concentrating on each in its turn.

As for me, I’m taking a one-week break beginning on Wednesday. I’m off to Nova Scotia to visit my youngest daughter and her partner. And they’ve arranged a retreat by the ocean for the three of us over the Easter weekend. I plan to walk on the sand and watch the tides, play Scrabble with two of my favourite people by a fireplace, read some books I’ve been staring at on the shelf for months, and practice the mindfulness that will, once again, allow me to enjoy and be satisfied with my work.
Posted: 2006/04/09 8:50 PM

Time Flies – April 1, 2006
Wow, times goes by quickly when life is busy. For the past month, life and business have been stubbornly eating away at my writing time. Maybe it is my fault that I haven’t been strong enough about protecting that time. Maybe I am using busyness to procrastinate about writing, not only here but on that new natural learning book I have been working on for too long. Maybe I have writer’s block. Maybe there are just not enough hours in the day. Maybe I expect too much of myself. Maybe I am slowing down (just look at those moms with young kids who find hours to spend writing on Yahoo lists!). We moved, I was on deadline, my mother is ill, etc., etc. No more excuses. April is another month, with all the fresh resolve of the warmer Spring weather...and, where I live, the change to Daylight Saving Time that happens tonight.  
Posted: 2006/04/01 11:04 AM

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The One Who is Not Busy by Darlene Cohen (2004, Gibbs Smith, Publisher)
Mindfulness
by Ellen J. Langer (1989, Da Capo Press)
The Breaking Point - How Today's Women Are Navigating Midlife Crisis
by Sue Shellenbarger (2005. Henry Holt & Co)
Goddesses in Older Women - Archetypes  in Women Over Fifty
by Jean Shinoda Bolen (2001, Harper Collins)

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The Silver Collection: Stan Getz and The Oscar Peterson Trio (Verve, 1958)
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